So you’re on the fence about eloping and wondering, “Should we just elope?” This quiz helps you plan with purpose, uncover reasons to elope, and decide if eloping for the experience is right for your intimate wedding day. If you’ve been Googling “how to elope” or trying to plan with purpose but feel stuck, you’re not alone. Many couples feel torn between expectations and the desire for an intentional wedding day. This heart-led quiz you just took guided you through questions to uncover your values and explore the reasons to elope. Whether you’re planning with purpose or trying to avoid family stress, your answers will bring clarity and peace.
If you’ve been dreaming of an intimate wedding day or craving a just-the-two-of-us experience, this is your moment. Learn how to plan an elopement that’s stress-free, sacred, and authentic to you. Below, your quiz results reveal if eloping is the right path, helping you ditch the pressure and plan with purpose. No more wondering how to elope or juggling family drama—just real, meaningful answers to start your journey. Eloping for the experience might be exactly what your heart’s been waiting for.
And if you’re results aren’t what you anticipated, maybe eloping isn’t for you. Check out this article on the different types of intimate weddings that exist, and see which one best suits you.
In the meantime, let’s get to the quiz results!
Mostly A’s – Yes. Eloping Is Exactly What You Need.
You’re not afraid to think differently, being drawn to intimate moments and the freedom to create your wedding day – your way. You’re craving a stress-free wedding planning experience—one that prioritizes connection, nature, and truth over tradition. You want to plan with purpose, not pressure. You’re not alone.
Connection, nature, and truth mean more than tradition. Likely, you’ve been wondering “Should we elope?” for a while. Now’s the time to lean into it.
Explore the ELOPE book, the ELOPE Planner, and the stories of international flight attendants from all walks of life who eloped to see how others have done it their way. This guidebook and planner are packed with elopement advice, unique elopement ideas, and all the destination elopement tips you need to get started.
Bold thinking sets you apart—your vision is anything but ordinary. You were made for this kind of freedom.
Breaking The News: Telling Family and Friends You’re Eloping
Mostly B’s – You’re Close… But Something’s Holding You Back
You love the idea of meaning, adventure, and intention. But the pull of people-pleasing and tradition still has a hold. You’re asking the right questions—is eloping right for us? Why not just elope and celebrate with a small group later?
Here’s the good news: you can absolutely do both.
You might not want a full traditional wedding, but a small microwedding or a destination elopement with just a few people could be perfect. Start exploring quiet wedding ideas, eloping without family drama, and how to blend both worlds with peace.
Don’t rush the decision. But don’t be afraid to dream differently.
Which Intimate Adventure-Filled Celebration Best Reflects You?
Mostly C’s or D’s – A Traditional Wedding Might Be Right
You value celebration, structure, and including those you love, but you might not be ready to break away from the traditional path—and that’s okay. Still, you’re curious and craving an authentic wedding experience without the pressure.
Before you decide, read a few elopement stories from real couples in my ELOPE book. You’ll find everything from unique stay inspiration to pros and cons of eloping, and you may be surprised by how many couples found peace on the other side of tradition.
Even if you choose a traditional wedding, it should be your version, not anyone else’s.
Want more information to get over the “roadblock” of deciding if you should just elope? Let’s talk it through.
How else can you jump over these hurdles? I highly suggest you read my book, ELOPE, if you haven’t already. It has suggestions on how to work though family politics, expectations, and performance anxiety when all you want to do is have a private, intentional ceremony. It’s jammed packed with ideas, and includes on page 17, 18 – “10 Simple Reasons To Elope.” If you still aren’t convinced, then yes, you should probably have a traditional wedding!